What is Mindfulness?

The concept of mindfulness has actually been around for thousands of years. Its origins can be found in the earliest Buddhist teachings (2500 years ago). It has been used over the centuries in traditional eastern contemplative practices like Hatha Yoga and other meditation practices. Zen masters taught mindfulness to enlightened monks in the ultimate acceptance of their own existence.

However, the way we use the term here, Mindfulness should not be confused with inward focused mysticism or spirituality. Today Mindfulness not only refers to the acceptance of one’s reality but what one does with that reality. As we use it, Mindfulness is the skill of living in the moment and relating to the world in a nonjudgmental and reflexive as oppose to reactive fashion.

In recent years, science and westernization have adapted Mindfulness so that it can be cultivated daily, used without years of practice, and be compatible and useful within almost any modern human activity. Mindfulness is simply an introspective method for grounding your thoughts, emotions and behaviors in the reality you are currently experiencing, so you can stand back, observe, understand yourself more fully and take care of your needs.

The act of Mindfulness is the ability to focus your attention on your inner thoughts while letting go of past or future worries. It will take some practice to witness your thoughts popping up and then going away without self-criticism, but it can be achieved by most people without extensive training, just daily practice. For instance, just watching your breathing can have a calming effect on your mind and slowly restore your sense of well-being. When you quiet your thoughts about what you have to do and your feelings dictating what you want to do, your intuitive mind takes over. Here you gently move from dwelling on the past or future to being focused on what you are doing right at this moment. Being in this state of Mindfulness allows you to listen to your gut and discover what you truly need. Mindfulness allows you to acknowledge your feelings, witness your thoughts and redirect yourself away from distraction.

We live in era of constant upheaval and change. Actually, most of us get through life on autopilot. Our brain gets filled with restless ideas and memories that are hard to keep track of especially when we become stressed. We tend to “tune out” and just “try to get through the day.”

Everyone’s mind naturally wanders, but when you practice Mindfulness you are aware of your mind wandering and can gradually redirect it back to the present. Mindfulness allows you to gently quiet all the noise in your head. Paying attention to your breathing, tracking your thoughts, or scanning your body for tension are just few of the many ways to reduce mental chatter. With Mindful practice, you can learn to remove the tendency to jump to conclusions, make assumptions and idle judgments, and recognize that your negative or positive feelings are coming from you and not the external world around you.

Dr Marsha Linehan, founder of Evidence Based Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) says we need to adopt a “Reflexive Mind” in order to cope with distress and change. Here, your mind is trained to act like Teflon, nothing sticks to it long enough to attach. Mindfulness has been shown to bring calmness and patience to those who embrace the practice. People who practice daily Mindfulness are processing life rather than analyzing its content. The ultimate state of Mindfulness is mental resiliency.

In fact Mindfulness can also help you stay focused and aware even when you are engaged in mundane activities such as driving, eating, and walking. Research has shown its positive effects on boosting the immune system, managing pain, reducing stress and cultivating personal awareness.

A beginning Mindful sequence may involve:

- Sitting in a quiet and comfortable location

- Thinking about where you are and what you are doing at this very moment

- Closing your eyes

- Allowing thoughts about what already or will happen move in an out of your consciousness with your non-judging mind and gentle persuasion

- Focusing on the sensations of breathing each breath and noticing what that does to your belly, nostrils and lungs

- Making note of every thought and feeling that comes up and then returning to your breathing to further anchor your attention

- Observing your mind but, not getting stuck on any one particular thought or feeling as your breathing becomes more natural, full and steady

- Opening your eyes and looking at something you have seen before with a fresh perspective.

What are Affirmations?

Affirmations are declarative statements about something you now know, did, or intend to do. When you use an Affirmation you are not only being aware of your thoughts, but you are taking conscious control of them. When you say, write, read or even think of an Affirmation, you are, in effect, taking steps to acknowledge what is worthwhile about you.

Studies have shown that most of our daily thoughts are negative. Working with Affirmations makes you aware of how self-defeating thoughts chip away at your creativity. Affirmations help you create a new reality and visualize what you essentially want out of life.

Negativity can threaten your health and happiness. In fact, when you are not paying attention to your thinking, you are more liable to pessimistic and not realistic or optimistic. The more you are aware of what you are actually telling yourself, the more upbeat you will sound. Using command based phraseology, keeping the Affirmation in the present tense and making it reality based offers you more reinforcement. Repeatedly telling yourself that you are, or will be, deserving, healthy, and successful, the more your positive determination will flow. You’re more likely to see a bounce in your step and a lift in your life by using daily Affirmations.

What are Mindful Affirmations?

Mindful Affirmations ” are not just inspirational sayings. We use the term as thought provoking phrases that loosely derive from Mindfulness ideas of Dr. Jon Kabat-Zinn, who founded the medical and meditative models of Mindfulness. He came up with Eight Stations of Mindful Meditation:

- Smile

- Breathe

- Arrive

- Attend

- Find the essence

- Slow down

- Listen

- See things with a new perspective

Mindful Affirmations incorporate one or more of these active stations into each passage in order to support the Mindful notion of keeping an “open mind,” where possibilities have no limits. They are not meditations as used by Dr Zinn and others. Mindful Affirmations take ordinary Affirmations like “Your self-confidence will carry you on,” and make them more reality based so the reader can gradually acknowledge and accept the truth about their life. An example of expanding the above Affirmation into a Mindful Affirmation would be “I barely thought of my own self-worth until I saw myself going backwards in life. Letting myself go and losing all I had gained made me feel stuck and dependent. I now see how harnessing my self-esteem can help me not only find my way but, carry me through life.”

This phraseology helps to evoke not only the reader’s subconscious mind, but keeps the reader focused on the key of Mindfulness, just being in the moment.

Pain is about growth and is inevitable. Unfortunately, too many of us have become addicted to suffering… but suffering is optional! Mindful Affirmations make our conscious and subconscious minds look at our pain and release our fears about the unknown. Our inner subconscious mind has the desire for change but doesn’t know just what to change or how to do it. Our outer conscious mind desires to be relaxed, in balance and accept our state of affairs. When working in concert our two minds remove expectations/accusations and allow us to gently examine our feelings, thoughts and behaviors about the past without dwelling or being judgmental.

When Mindful Affirmations are written in the first person they can help the reader not only empathize with the writer, but slowly begin to accept and validate their own pain, saying inside themselves, “I guess I am not alone.” Mindful Affirmations not only break down the reader’s self-imposed isolation but offer them options for change such as in the passage, “I now see that responding rather than reacting will build a healthy interpersonal world for myself.”

It has been my clinical experience that each time I ask a patient to read a Mindful Affirmation, they mention to me that they now see their old problem in a different way. One of the core values of Mindfulness is to be able to see yourself and the world around you with a “new set of eyes.”

The focus is on accepting, commitment and learning (refers to “ACT” therapy) a new way of living or looking at life. Mindful Affirmations help the reader’s mind stay engaged while supporting the surrender of old baggage and unfulfilled expectations.

Mindful Affirmations use positive assertions like “I feel happy,” but allow our present awareness to reinforce our declaration giving us clarity of thought to see our options. It is a coping strategy. For example, the statement “When I am stressed I make myself sit and take notice of my surroundings,” supports your inner desire to stay calm and centered rather than be overwhelmed and scattered.

The book takes Affirmations to the next level by first talking about how “I” (the reader) arrived at the state of not being able to take control, what resulted, and how “I” plan to take command of my life in the future.

Using these three components to the Affirmation not only supports the drive to do better, but plants the seed more firmly that “I” will make progress and “I” can learn from my past. Mindful Affirmations are cyclical in nature. Each time a negative feeling comes up the reader has a choice to make good or bad decisions. The truth is that we are more likely to accomplish what we set out to do, if we are keenly aware of how the past made us feel and what consequences may lie ahead.

Mindful Affirmations help you not only face reality, but look beyond it by challenging your old mental dialogue with a new perspective. Mindful Affirmations allow you to step back from life enough to examine regrets and embrace new options. Mindful Affirmations help you discover that who you really are is what keeps you alive, vital and present.

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24 Secrets to Coaching a Perfect Basketball Practice

24 Secrets to Coaching a Perfect Basketball Practice

This is a roadmap for coaching basketball and getting maximum practice results.

Principle#1

Have a Plan.

Organization is the key. A coach without a plan will invariably miss teaching points. It is important that the players know that their coach is invested in helping them maximize their individual and collective potential. A coach with a plan sends this message. Planning also insures that the coach teaches as effectively as possible. This applies to more than only daily practices; it is essential to plan for the entire year and a basketball program. This may include a broad yearly plan that includes broad seasonal goals, off-season player development programs, fundraisers, individual and/or team camps, and off-season conditioning programs. Within the context of a basketball season, monthly plans can be very beneficial in determining appropriate times to introduce new schemes. Weekly plans offer more specific information about introducing skills in specific drills, and there been very useful to me in maintaining an appropriate practice rhythm and presenting material in a logical manner.

Principle#2

Keep practices quick-paced.

There should be little to no lag time between drills. Players are expected to sprint from drill to drill and to keep practices in constant motion. Basketball is a game of quick transitions and changes. For example, players must make

quick changes from offense to defense, defense to offense, and pressing defenses to half-court defenses. All require a quick mental and physical change of gears. A fast moving practice can help condition a player for such game situations. Also, aside from the time that a coach uses to teach a skill or to walk through a new scheme, players should make every effort to play their hardest.

Principle #3

Include as many competitive situations as possible.

This gives players the feel of games and develops the competitors drive that is necessary to be a winner. We turn as many drills as possible into mini-games with consequences for the losers, such as running or push ups. We also try to include some one on one play in every practice to keep a competitive tone as well as to work on game moves. Ideally, the players will develop a high level of competitiveness amongst themselves that will carry over into every possible applicable situation in practice. By turning as many practice situations as possible into competitive situations, the hope is to foster this competitiveness, or to unleash it if it already exists. Natural competitiveness is a quality that defines teams and is often a highly accurate indicator of potential success.

Principle #4

Allow some 3 on 3 play daily.

! believe that 3 on 3 play is the best way to teach kids how to Think The Game. Almost all offensive play boils down to 2 or 3 man games. Examples of this are numerous and include UCLA cuts, Flex cuts, Shuffle cuts, and Pass and Screen Away action. All of these movements can occur in 3 on 3 play. Also, playing 3 on 3 allows the offense more room to operate. If, for instance, a teams offense features 2 low post players then the wings are rarely provided the opportunity to make back door cuts when being overplayed. In 3 on 3 play this option to back-cut is much more likely to be available. Also, 3 on 3 challenges the defense because there are 2 less help defenders on the court. This should force the defense to move more quickly and be more aware. In theory, 3 on 3 play helps improve both offensive and defensive play.

Principle #5

Hear, See, Do

Teach a skill by first explaining the skill, then demonstrating the drill, then having the player perform the skill. This is the most effective way to learn and retain knowledge from the players/students perspective. Teach by first explaining the skill, then demonstrating the skill, then having the players perform the skill – repetitively. Research indicates that we retain only 10% of what we hear; 20% of what we see; 65% of what we hear and see; but 90% of what we hear, see, and do. Developing understanding and communicating effectively (with impact) should be a coaches top priority. This multi-sensory approach promotes understanding far more effectively than less thorough methods.

Principle #6

Do not be afraid to critique.

Though there are certain times to -just let the kids play- I usually try to address every mistake I see. Though this may at times become tiresome to both coaches and players, it is absolutely necessary to the development of good habits. I try to keep criticism positive by using the Sandwich Technique. First I find a positive, then make my critique, then end on a positive. For example: John, you did a great job setting up your man, but next time makes sure to touch shoulders when you come off that screen. Keep up the hard work. This helps the player understand where he needs to improve without making him feel as though the coach is picking on him.

Principle #7

Teach using the Whole-Part-Whole technique.

This particularly useful when teaching team schemes, though it applies to aspects of individual play as well. When teaching an offense, for example, the offense should be shown to the players in its entirety so that they can gain a feel of its purpose. Then the offense should be broken down into parts so that the players can concentrate on perfecting different parts of the offense. Often this can be done through different series of 2 and 3 man games. Then, after different parts of the offense have been broken down, run the offense, again, in its entirety. This technique usually gives players and teams optimum results in understanding and execution. Teaching using the part method approach alone, on the other hand, often leaves the player without an understanding of how the skills he is working on fit into the big picture. Using the whole method alone is less effective too because it robs a player of the repetition required to master skills within the larger scheme.

Principle #8

Repetition is the mother of learning. Create Habits.

Basketball is a game of habits, and the only way to develop the correct habits is to practice them over and over again. Research indicates that it takes 21 days to create a habit; this translates into a need to spend practice time repetitively and correctly drill the skills we want to see at game time. If you teach a player a skill such as coming off a screen once, he might understand the concept in his mind. But the only way to get that player to consistently come off screens correctly is to have him practice the skill over and over again. Also, once the skill is taught, the repetitions must be done at game speed. Once that skill becomes a habit, a coach can expect to see real results at game time.

As a coach it is often tempting to get caught up in a coaching “chess match”, implementing more than is reasonable for a team at any given time in the season. However, I think this approach contradicts the tenet of the repetition and robs players and teams of success by over complicating things. Some would term this “over-coaching” This explains why the coach that adds a new play in the middle of a game rarely sees results; the players have not really seen or done what the coach has shown them.

Principle #9

Daily Dozen

Every year I make a short list of the things I feel we must do well to win. I make sure that we work on these things every day. The actual drills might differ but the skills being developed remain the same. These things are part of the “daily dozen” that are part of every practice. Most years include such things as: Defending the ball-handler full court, closing out on the shooter, off-ball defense, shooting and the primary fast break. I have a drill (or 2) for each that we run every day. This helps create the repetition needed for these skills to become habits.

Principle #10

Love your Players.

This does not mean that a coach should try to be buddies with the players. The coach is often the bad guy because he must be critical and insist on a level of discipline that players might want to resist. It is absolutely necessary that the coach be consistent and hold high expectations. However, players should also know that underneath everything the coach loves them. They learn this when the exhibits consistent, stays positive, supports a player who is going through a tough time or a player who is in the right, and being there for a player each and every day. In the end, players will respect the coach that sticks with it every day, even when times are tough. The wise coach never holds a grudge; each day is a new day and a fresh start.

Principle #11

Treat players as individuals.

Different players have different individual needs. Some players respond to a coachs stern warning for poor effort; some respond better to being pulled off to the side for a quiet reminder. Similarly, a poor effort in a drill by one player may indicate a lack of interest while for another it may be a sign that he is confused and needs the drill explained more clearly. It is important for the coach to tune into players needs and respond appropriately. Remember: being fair means giving each player what he or she needs, not treating every player in exactly the same way.

Principle #12

You will be successful at what you emphasize.

This concept relates closely to the Daily Dozen. A team can only be great at a few things. Teams are ultimately a reflection of the coach; in a way they become a reflection of his personality. The coach who allows sloppy play in practice will get exactly that in games, while the coach who demands effort and execution will eventually see results at game time. The tough coach who believes in grind it out defense will eventually get that from his players. Consistently emphasize the right things (a full effort at all times, unselfishness, quick and proper execution, etc.) and results will come naturally.

Principle #13

Start Well: Set the Tone.

I believe the first 15 minutes of practice are the most important. I think it is a big mistake for players or coaches to ease into the practice, moving slowly and without precision or being overly social. How a team begins practice usually sets the tone for the entire session. Teams should come in enthusiastic and focused on playing and learning basketball. They should be loose and confident, but businesslike and focus. It is beneficial for the coach to clearly communicate that he expects players to walk into the gym every day with the correct mindset. It can be very difficult to change the tone of an unfocused practice.

Principle #14

No practice is better than bad practice.

If a team is practicing with no interest or enthusiasm, the coach should respond progressively in an attempt to turn things around. I usually start by stating my expectations and changing drills. Sometimes, for reasons beyond my understanding, teams will struggle with certain drills, including ones that are commonly used and well-executed. Practice will sometimes improve after a simple change-of-gears such as this.

The next logical response is to stop practice and have the team run sprints. The purpose is not to punish; it is to teach the team the importance and value of practicing well. The coach should communicate this to the team; if he does not, he will lose a valuable opportunity to teach his players and he might run the risk of alienating them unnecessarily. Initially, I might only have the team sprint the length of the court and back in ten seconds or run a suicide in 28 or 30 seconds before returning to practice. If we have to stop practice again, the amount of running will usually increase substantially.

If nothing works, it is better to end practice. I would rather have my players go home than watch them watch them reverse any momentum they have been making by replacing good habits with bad ones. I try to communicate that they are only hurting themselves by forcing themselves to start from scratch in developing winning habits.

When a coach ends practice it does not need to be a personal attack on his players, and it should not generate any animosity off the court or the next day. It is simply a teaching tool and a message that effort is always expected and that teams change every day. It is the coaches responsibility that his team moves forward every day rather than slide backwards. If mistakes occur that requires discussion wait until scrimmaging is over.

Principle #15

Make your drills fit your system.

Some drills look great on paper but might not necessarily complement your teams style of play. When coaching basketball, try to avoid any situations in practice that wont occur in games. There are tons of drills out there. If you feel that a drill you use might not be the most beneficial for your team, do not be afraid to find, or even invent, one that fits better.

Principle #16

Condition with the ball!!

Basketball requires excellent conditioning. Put simply: if you are out of shape, you ca not be an effective player. It follows, then, that conditioning should play a prominent role in every practice. Many coaches accomplish this with sprint drills such as suicides. While such drills may build toughness, I have often felt them to be a waste of practice time. The game is played with the ball and the only way to make real improvement as a player is to play with the ball. There are innumerable drills that serve as excellent conditioners that simultaneously teach the skills of the game. These drills accomplish the dual role of conditioning the player and improving skills. Another plus is that players are typically much more enthusiastic about running these types of drills than sprints

Principle #17

Incorporate transition in to every possible facet of practice.

Basketball games are often won and lost in transition. This is especially true at the high school level and below. Transition usually yields lay-ups, whether from steals or from the fast break. The team that gets the most lay-ups will usually win the game. Conversely, the team that forces its opponent to play 5 on 5 every time down the floor puts itself in a great position to win. Therefore, it is imperative that teams condition themselves to convert quickly from offense to defense and vice verse. The only way to achieve this is to stress transition as often as possible. For example, when a team is working on its court offense the defense should be allowed one quick fast break after every offensive possession before returning to court play. This way the offense gets into the habit of converting quickly to defense every time the opponent gains possession and the defense is conditioned to quickly change ends of the floor every time it gains possession. Both offensive and defensive conversion occur so often in basketball, they must be given the same amount of attention as court situations

Principle #18

K.I.S.S. Keep It Simple, Stupid.

This acronym is an absolute MUST for all coaches to remember. A coaches job is to teach fundamentals and give the team what they need to play as well as they can. Love of the game seduces many coaches into viewing basketball as a chess match. They install numerous offenses and defenses and making numerous wholesale changes throughout seasons and game in an attempt at complete control. What this coach forgets is that if the players are at all confused or are fundamentally unsound they will not perform well. Give the players a few effective things and resist the urge to add more until they have the ability and confidence to consistently execute what they already know. More often than not, poor play is a result of fundamental errors within a system. Without mastering those fundamentals, no system will work well. The coach who focuses on correcting those errors will find that he has plenty of adjustments to make without changing offenses or defenses. A coaches job is to give the players what they need to know, not to show the players everything he knows. I like to compare over-coaching to pouring a gallon of water into a shot glass; the team will not retain most of it anyway.

Principle #19

Scrimmage!!

Some coaches and teams scrimmage very little, if at all, during practice. I think it is absolutely necessary to scrimmage. This is the best way to simulate game conditions. Many coaches are afraid that scrimmaging (especially early in the season) is too sloppy. That is at times true, but it is a barrier that teams must work through to succeed.

A coach can limit sloppiness by Scrimmaging with Conditions. Examples: 1. Focus on zone offense by scrimmaging, but do not allow any fast breaks. This will force the offense has to execute against the zone every time down court; 2. If players dribble every time they catch the ball instead of getting into triple threat position, make a rule that possession is lost every time a player fails to catch and read. 3. If there is no ball movement, a coach can require ball reversal on every possession unless there is a wide open lay-up. Including these types of parameters helps emphasize important facets of the game while keeping scrimmages under control early in the season.

Let them play. Do not stop every possession of a scrimmage if that was not your original intent. Make corrections in the flow of the scrimmage by using key words and short phrases that players can recognize and use without stopping. Use substitutes to pull players out when more focused communication is needed.

Principle #20

Utilize the teaching tools at your disposal.

Use stations to maximize the use of extra baskets. Use jump ropes to condition and enhance hand-eye-foot coordination. Use football blocking pads in stations to simulate the contact that occurs on shots in the paint. Use a Big ball or Shrunken Rim to increase Shooting accuracy, and a weighted basketball or a medicine ball to improve strength and speed up passing and ball movement. Use any tools you have at your disposal to improve or speed up team development. Keep in mind, however, that these types of aids are peripheral to repetition and conditioning in player development, and should only be incorporated into practice when using them does not disrupt tempo or conditioning.

Principle #21

Expect Mistakes.

It is very easy to become frustrated when several mistakes occur during practice. I have found this especially true at the beginning of the season, where I have at times felt that we would never be able to properly execute important fundamentals, much less a team offense or defense. Later in the season, I have experienced the same feeling when a team has an average or poor practice following a period of success that has caused my expectations to grow. I have found it beneficial to balance this by reminding myself that mistakes occur constantly in basketball. My role as the coach is to continue to correct the mistakes and to provide players with the repetitions needed to eliminate them permanently. Even then, players and teams will go through stagnant periods where old mistakes will pop up. My philosophy tends to be: as long as the players are giving consistent individual and collective efforts, I can accept mistakes as part of the growth process because I trust that we will continue to correct them and move forward as a whole. When mistakes are the result of poor effort or disinterest, my response is much more harsh and my communication much more critical.

I remind myself often that, quite often, the team that makes the most mistakes wins. This may seem counter-intuitive, yet it happens so often because many teams that make more mistakes are also teams that play faster and more aggressively. Often, the having the courage to play with all-out effort despite looking silly at times has far greater impact than playing with cautious reserve.

Principle #22

Stations

Utilizing Stations can be very beneficial simply because they optimize time and resources. Stations can be used to teach many different skills in a short time, teach different skills to players by position (i.e. guards and bigs), or provide the repetitions required to master one or two skills. The intensity and short duration of well-run stations provide excellent anaerobic conditioning, which is critical in basketball.

Principle #23

Define Discipline.

It is important to define what is meant by the term discipline early on with teams and players. In the context of team and individual performance, discipline describes a team that: sticks to its game plan; makes consistently good decisions; maintains a high level of play when fatigued; maintains excellent conditioning; and, very often, is a Winner.

Any suicides, push ups, or other activity that I hand out to my players and teams are given in order to teach them how to become the disciplined winner just described..

It is important hat the coach work very hard to approach kids with a Clean Slate every day. If the coach is able to do this, the idea of punishing players based on a grudge or a selfish need to exert control becomes one that the coach would never entertain. I try to make my expectations very clear to players and foster the belief that Discipline, despite the negative connotations attached to it by many people, is one of our primary objectives each year. Players that buy-in to this philosophy usually come to feel that playing on undisciplined teams is not enjoyable at all, because the people involved lack the common vision, shared growth, and level of respect from their peers that typify disciplined teams. These players will come to expect and sometimes even embrace the coaches chosen -Discipline- for breaking rules, for poor conditioning, and for poor effort. They realize that the coach who does not respond to these types of problems is short-changing the team, by failing to teach them to become winners

Principle #24

Be Yourself.

A high school coach typically spends around twenty hours per week with his players during the season. As many players begin to play basketball year-round as early as 4th or 5th grade, coaches at all levels maintain contact with players throughout the year as well. At the high school and middle school levels the coach has constant contact with his players He is around his players so often that they will see the real him. Players will know if a coach is projecting a fake personality. A coach that pretends to be something he is not, or who tries to emulate another coach will ultimately lose the respect of his players. Consistency is extremely important, and the only way for a coach to be truly consistent is to be himself. Emulating someone else might work for a day but over the course of time players will respect the coach who is true to himself.

24 Secrets to Coaching a Perfect Basketball Practice

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Affirmation statements -we hear them spoken often by motivational speakers, authors, writers etc., but what can we personally do to harness the power of affirmations in our own lives?

Think about a time in your life when you desired to make a change – something major, like finding a new job, moving to a new city or home, or something less momentous like a New Year’s resolution to improve your overall health. Can you think of a past experience like that? Now, think about the tools that you used or steps that you took to help guide you through that transition and keep you focused on achieving your goals while making that change.

These tools in effect, involved you setting in motion a series of events to accomplish the goals you’d set out for yourself, and one of the easiest ways to achieve success is to create affirmations.

Affirmations are very easy to use and quite powerful once you get the hang of practicing this daily exercise. Affirmations keep you focused on what’s important to you and help you achieve positive transitions. Basically an affirmation is a declaration that something is already true and has come to fruition in your life in the present moment. You have to believe what you are looking to achieve or obtain has already arrived in order for ‘it’ to show up in your life.

If your desire is to create personal well-being, first choose a phrase that describes what you desire. For example, if you desire to adopt a healthier lifestyle, then your affirmation statement could say, “I feel good and look good when I live a healthy lifestyle.” Or “I enjoy the great feelings I get from exercising daily.” Short powerful statements are more focused and work much better to bring about results than long, drawn-out paragraphs.

There are some rules to follow when creating an affirmation that I’d like to share with you.

Rule # 1: The phrase must be in the present tense, such as “I feel good”, as opposed to “I will feel good” which implies that at some point in the future you ‘might’ achieve your goal. Remember to phrase your affirmation as if your desire.

Rule #2: The statement must always be written from a positive perspective, instead of a negative one. For example, you wouldn’t say “I don’t feel good when I am not healthy” as this places your health – which you are trying to change – in a negative context. Always phrase your desire/affirmation statement in a positive context and in the present tense.

Rule #3: Repeat often. After you create an affirmation, write it down on something that you can keep with you, like a notebook or card to put in your purse or wallet, or place it somewhere that you look at often throughout your day such as on your bathroom mirror or your desk at work. Make sure that you read your affirmation statements as many times during your day as possible.

Studies have shown that using the power of affirmations can lower stress and I have found this to be true in my own life. When I get clear about what I want in my life and focus on my desires with affirmations every day, I am more content and peaceful. What we focus on grows, so the more you focus your attention on your affirmations, the more likely you are to create positive changes in your life and achieve your dreams.

My favorite book on affirmations and the power of healing is Louise Hay’s, You Can Heal Your Life. In this fascinating book you can learn more about the healing power of affirmations and how you can harness them to improve your overall health and well-being. And frankly, who wouldn’t like to live a healthier, more serene life in these turbulent times?

Using the power behind affirmations can truly change your life for the better. Put this into practice this week by writing down three short affirmations about three areas you’d like to make positive changes in your life. Be sure to state your desires in the present tense and in a positive way. Practice repeating these statements as many times as you can for 7 days and see what wonderful changes reveal themselves in your life.

Inspired by her passion to support others on their own personal growth journey, Carolee Laffoon founded Affirmations To Go, a company which encourages people to create lasting personal affirmation products to carry with them daily to keep them focused on their goals, hopes and dreams. Carolee publishes a monthly newsletter “Affirmation Inspirations” to share her favorite affirmations, inspirations, and product specials. Visit Affirmations To Go and sign up to receive her newsletter as well as participate in her special monthly Affirmations product giveaway.

Prosperity’s 12 Affirmations are 12 powerful affirmations of prosperity and well-being drawn from the 10 Commandments (Exodus 20:1-17) and the book Prosperity’s 10 Commandments by Georgiana Tree West. The 11th and 12th affrimations are inspired by Jesus’ 2 great commandments found in Matthew 22:37-39. Prosperity’s first 4 affirmations help to internalize ideas that contribute to establishing a prospering relationship with the Fundamental Creative Energy of the Universe – God. In this article we will look at four affirmations, which will help you internalize ideas that aid in creating prospering relationships with other people. As you use these affirmations to create your abundant life, you will begin to establish habits of language and action that will enable you to create mutually prospering relationships with other people. Affirm these affirmations daily and you make these powerful prosperity principles a basic part of your life experience.

Four Affirmations for Prospering Relationships with Others

“I maintain my highest integrity when connecting with God and interacting with God’s agents of my wealth”. Perhaps this affirmation should be “I am faithful to God and respectful of people”. The key to success with this affirmation is to stay conscious of our relationship to God, our only Source of supply. Then we will remember that others are also connected to the God-Source. In this consciousness we create the possibility for everyone with whom we interact to bless us in some way. However, we must be open and receptive to the blessing. When we maintain our integrity and treat people with respect, we empower them and they are likely to empower us, quite possibly in unexpected ways.

“I keep my wealth circulating and creating blessings for others and for me”. The Commandment upon which this affirmation is based is “Thou Shalt Not Murder”. Habitual thoughts of poverty and limitation are murderers of prosperity. We affirm this affirmation in language and in action through our generosity, tithing and giving. In using this affirmation we are creating our experience of the unimpeded circulation of wealth and abundance.

“I only use my wealth for creative, uplifting, enlightening, joyful and life affirming purposes”. This affirmation helps us to keep our motives and uses for money pure and unadulterated. We remind ourselves that money is Love in action and we focus on the positive uses of our money as a pure expression of love. With this affirmation we exercise the power of intention. When we create a field of clear intention we take advantage of the natural processes of creation to yield the object or service for which we expended a portion of our wealth but we have the added benefit of spiritual and emotional satisfaction because others are blessed and benefited by our intentions and actions.

“I always give generous and fair compensation for value received”. This affirmation helps us practice the Law of Compensation which reminds us that when we are attempting to get something for nothing, we are actually trying to steal. However, when we are willing to give fair compensation for everything we receive, we stay in the continuous flow of prosperity.

Next Steps Take action by repeating these affirmations until they feel natural to you. You may want to craft your own version of these affirmations to really make them yours. The time and energy you invest in working with the affirmations will pay large dividends in your experience of prosperity and abundance.

One of the things you can do to accelerate your progress is to engage in conversations based on these four affirmations with family, friends and acquaintances. I invite you to visit Prosperity’s 12 Affirmations Blog, http://www.prosperingtimes.com/blog and if you wish to powerfully accelerate the potency of this affirmative process, accept our invitation to subscribe to the complimentary e-course “Introduction to Prosperity’s 12 Affirmations at http://www.prosperingtimes.com/Intro2P12Registration.html

Affirmations are simply statements that we make to ourselves; it’s our self-talk. You use affirmations all the time, whether you’re doing so intentionally or unintentionally. If you make a mistake and you think to yourself, “I’m always making mistakes, I never do anything right”, you’ve just made a negative affirmation. If instead you make a mistake and you think to yourself, “That’s OK, I have the ability to correct this”, you’ve just made a positive affirmation.

Your self-talk has an enormous impact on your conscious and subconscious minds. By repeating positive affirmations you can reprogram your thought patterns. Creating new thought patterns will allow you to begin to change your underlying beliefs and the way that you think and feel about yourself, others, and your place in the world. In this way, you can improve your life dramatically through the use of daily positive affirmations.

Choosing Your Affirmations

Shakti Gawain, author of Creative Visualization, offers the following advice for choosing your affirmations:

o Always phrase your affirmations in the present tense, as if it already exists. Say “I enjoy being at my ideal weight” instead of saying “I will reach my ideal weight.”

o Affirm what you want, not what you don’t want. Instead of saying “I am no longer a procrastinator”, say “I always get things done on time.”

o Don’t simply go through your affirmations by rote; add positive feelings and emotions to your affirmations.

o Choose affirmations that feel right for you. If you come across an affirmation that you like but you would feel more comfortable changing a couple of words, go right ahead.

Use Three Different Pronouns

A technique that you can apply to make your affirmations more effective is to write down the same affirmation using different pronouns. For example, if you want to affirm that you’re surrounded by positive people who want the best for you, you can write down the following three affirmations (in this example your name is Joan):

o I am surrounded by positive people who want the best for me.

o Joan, you are surrounded by positive people who want the best for you.

o Joan is surrounded by positive people who want the best for her.

When you say affirmations in the second and third person it’s as if someone else is talking to you or about you. Your internal critic is less apt to interject a negative comment if it thinks someone else is making these positive affirmations about you.

Affirmations Can Be General or Specific

Affirmations can be general or they can be very specific. Some examples of general affirmations are the following:

o Abundance is all around me.

o Abundance is my birthright.

o There is more than enough for all.

Use general affirmations to “set the stage”. Once you’ve established clear, well-defined goals for yourself you can create specific affirmations to help keep you focused on your goals and to strengthen your belief in your ability to reach your goals. For example, if your goal is to lose 10 pounds in the next three months by exercising, your affirmations could be the following:

o I now jog for 40 minutes, 4 times a week.

o Jogging helps me to lose weight and makes me healthy and fit.

o I am now lifting weights 3 times a week.

o I enjoy going to the gym and lifting weights.

o I am getting excellent results from jogging and weight lifting, and it shows.

o Every day I am getting fitter and fitter.

o I now weigh X amount of pounds (your target weight).

o People comment on how much thinner I am and how good I look.

You Have to Be Able to Believe Your Affirmations

Whenever you choose to change anything in your life, you’re choosing to move out of your present comfort zone. We should always strive to grow and expand our definition of ourselves and of what we are capable of. However, you have to make sure that your affirmations are not so far off from where you are at the moment that there’s no way you can get yourself to believe what you’re affirming.

If you don’t believe the affirmations you’re saying to yourself, then you need to start with a less ambitious affirmation and gradually make your affirmations bigger and bigger. For example, if you currently make $3,000.00 a month, it may be difficult for you to believe “I am now making $50,000.00 a month”. However, you can probably believe the following affirmation: “I am now making $4,500.00, or more, a month”. As you move forward and begin to see results you can progressively increase this number until you do feel comfortable affirming that you make over half a million dollars a year.

Repeat Your Affirmations Often

There is much power in repetition. Positive affirmations are not something that you do once in a while, instead, you should expose your mind to the affirmations that you choose for yourself as often as possible. In the words of Robert Collier: “Constant repetition carries conviction.”

Write down your affirmations and place them where you can refer to them often (you can even carry them around in your wallet). You can say them out loud to yourself every morning when you wake up and at night before going to bed, or you can set aside a few minutes each day to scribble them on a sheet of paper several times to help reinforce the message in your mind.

Taping the affirmations in your own voice and listening to the tape while you’re relaxing-or, even better, meditating– has had extraordinary effects for countless people. Louise Hay, author of the International bestseller “You Can Heal Your Life”, recommends that you sing or chant your affirmations. Some people leave a CD with positive affirmations playing softly in the background while they sleep at night.

In addition, there are several programs that allow affirmations to flash on and off on your computer screen unobtrusively, helping to program these affirmations into your subconscious.

Affirmation Bath

Practitioners who offer healing workshops often use a technique called “affirmation bath”. Basically, several people stand around one person and they all begin saying positive affirmations directed toward that person. The person is “engulfed” by positive messages from others. You can try this technique if you can find several like-minded people to participate in this exercise with you.

Release Any Negative Feelings That Arise

Negative feelings can act as self-imposed stop signs to getting what you want in life. If you feel any discomfort, self-doubt, fear, anger, and so on when saying your affirmations, you need to let go or release these negative feelings. One way to do this is by using the Sedona Method. As stated before, you have to add positive feelings and emotions to your affirmations, and if negative feelings are getting in the way, you need to be able to let go of them.

Your self-talk can either prevent you from getting what you want in life, or it can be a powerful catalyst for creating the life you’ve always wanted. Create a daily practice of using positive affirmations to help motivate, support, and inspire you to go after your dreams.

Written by Marelisa Fábrega who blogs at http://abundance-blog.marelisa-online.com

What is the Use of Practice Session Before a CCNP Certification Test?

What is the Use of Practice Session Before a CCNP Certification Test?

The CCNP exams will be an important thing in the certification exam. This CCNP has the core networking certification. The certificate is not the entry level or the beginner’s level. This CCNP is the professional level certification exam. The professional who are applying for this CCNP certification should have good skills and knowledge over the networks. The candidates should have the excellent skills in installing, configuring, and troubleshooting.

The candidate who has passed the CCNP exam can perform well in local area network and wide area networks and also able to maintain the small and large business networks. Most of the professionals applying for this certification exam will know about the importance of certification exams. The candidates who are applying for the CCNP certification should have the CCNA exam to attend the certification. The basic requirement to attend the CCNP certification exam is to pass the CCNA certification. The exam is the beginner’s level or entry-level while the CCNP is the professional level. The candidates who are holding the certification only can apply for this exam.

The certification will be valid up to 3 years and after that the professional should renew the certification by writing some update exam. It is a very good one to get for having a great career in the IT industry. These are the professional level or expert level exams. The candidates who are applying for this exam will know about the certification exam while attending the CCNA certification. The CCNP will be the expert level certification for them. There are lots and lots of guides and study materials available in the market. The candidate can have the study materials in the market or can have the online training. There are many online tutorials in the Internet. The main thing is to take the practice session before taking the exam, which will help the candidate to get the exam without any problem. The practice session will be a helpful one for the candidate who is applying for the CCNP exam. Most of the professionals who are applying for the CCNP certification will have the practice session before appearing for the certification.

What is the Use of Practice Session Before a CCNP Certification Test?

What is the Use of Practice Session Before a CCNP Certification Test?

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Affirmations really work for a lot of people. I have heard countless stories, firsthand, of people manifesting income, lovers, children, lost items and events that are joyful beyond words. Others however, do a smash up job of sabotaging their affirmations efforts at every turn and end up with nothing they affirmed and usually being farther behind than when they started. Is it the fault of the affirmation? Are the gods out to get this person because of bad karma? Well, maybe but I doubt it. The answer is really much simpler than dirty karma or cheesed off affirmations elves – the answer is in the flow.

You see life has a flow and sometimes you are racing downstream with your goal clear in sight. Your fans are cheering you on from the shore – you can see your goal, you can smell it and sometimes even feel it between your fingertips. Other times you meander down a shallow creek sometimes running up on a dry creek bed or even getting caught in an overhanging tree. In the end the tree branch saves your life and you reach your goal. It’s later than planned – but you get where you want just the same. Both of these events are part of life. Affirmers sometimes interpret these life events incorrectly and get themselves in a big muddle and end up tossing a super result down the ‘life toilet’. Here is a great (and real) example:

Harry is focusing on manifesting a job that is closer to his creative gifting. He is a freelancer and for the last two years he has been doing projects that have been lucrative, but not exactly in line with his creative area. Harry has been aggressively affirming:

“I am now working with my creative talents and being paid handsomely for it”.

So far it seems to make sense. As well as his job affirmation, Harry has been affirming to attract some new friends and live in a warmer climate. One day an old contact calls up Harry and asks him to work with him on a new product for a few months. Harry will be paid well, however, it is not in line with Harry’s creative gifts. Harry is not busy with other projects but decides to not take the work because he wants to stay true to his affirmation:

“I am now working with my creative talents and being paid handsomely for it”.

Harry continues to work his affirmation for the next two months. That old contact runs into Harry in a local coffee shop and mentions he still needs help with is product launch and lets Harry know he can still come on board. Harry, frustrated at his lack of progress with manifesting his job goal, again, says he is not interested. Later that week Harry tosses his affirmation in the garbage and angrily curses that darn blog that claimed ‘affirmations really work’.

Whoops. Harry really blew it. Here is what was going on in the background while Harry was affirming and affirming for his creative talents to be used. Remember the client that called Harry and wanted help with that new product line? He was the bridge that would get Harry moved to a warmer climate within the next year. That new product line caught the eye of a wealthy angel investor that wanted the whole team to relocate to San Diego. That wealthy investor was to become Harry’s best friend. Three years later Harry’s best friend would invest in a creative idea that Harry dreamt about one warm San Diego night – That idea was the perfect match for Harry’s creative talents.

Ouch. Well cheer up, Harry will never know any of this. Harry will continue on and think affirmations don’t work and maybe reach his goal but it will be hard and it will probably take a long, long, long, long, time. Most likely Harry will spend a lot of time being discouraged, angry and unhappy.

Life is not a linear ruler that we can sit on and see from one side to the other. It twists, turns and wanders all about. Think about how you met your spouse, or a really good friend. Was it planned? Did you wake up one morning and say “Today I will meet a great person that I will spend the next 20 years with?” Likely not. Affirmations sometimes work the same way too. We affirm for a certain item to come to pass. We visualize. We meditate and we affirm some more. We are religious in our practice day in day out. Suddenly, one day, an opportunity presents itself for us to get involved in something, or we get invited to an event, or our car breaks down and a co-worker offers us a lift, or a neighbor offers to call us a plumber because our sink is plugged. We turn down the opportunity, we decline the invitation, we take a cab and we get out the plunger and start plunging. After all, these offers don’t line up with our affirmations.

Or do they?

Accepting the flow in life in one of the best gifts you can give yourself and the key to seeing results from your affirmations. Remember flow means ‘flow’. It takes no effort and it seems to appear from nowhere with you doing nothing to bring it to you. The next time you get an unexpected telephone call from someone you have not heard from in ten years, take notice. The next time you are offered something you were not expecting, think about it. And the next time you are affirming – be open to leaving the how’s of your affirmation up to those affirmation elves*. I think they know what they are doing.

*Affirmation elves do not exist, I think.

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As people begin to realize the importance and value of our thoughts in creating the life we desire (or the life we have, but would like to change), affirmations can be instrumental in re-training ourselves in how to think. Before we begin thinking, we start out a relatively clean slate. 

As we pick up beliefs and ways of thinking throughout life we begin to think that who we think we are is who we actually are.  This is not the absolute truth.  In actuality, we are much more than we could ever imagine and the negative stuff we have picked up along the way is something we can part with, because it’s not our true essence.

The purpose of affirmations is to affirm the truth and desires about ourselves and our circumstances. What can happen as we begin to focus on what we want and actually verbalize those desires in the form of affirmations, is the stuff that gets in our way will let itself be known.  This is the stuff that life has caused us to believe is really us. 

Are affirmations a way to circumvent reality?  Some people use them that way, but clearly intentional use will yield the truth every time: affirmations only affirm what is really inside.  It just needs some affirmation to be fully realized, inside and out.

When people view an affirmation as a band-aid to a problem, the problem they are referring to is the stuff that has stopped you from feeling that the affirmation is true, through and through. Affirmations are most useful when put into practice as a tool to help one get to know him or herself better through clarifying wants and determining unhelpful thoughts and patterns so they can be released.  That ensures the affirmation is healing the cause and not being used as a band-aid.

Your True Self knows you are totally lovable and loving, that you have every resource available to you (even if it is in a different form than you may expect), and that you can make your life into what you want it to be. However, your ego or inner critic, will tell you otherwise.

Practicing affirmations deserves your full attention.  It is of great value to bring affirmations into your life to invite the stuff blocking your way to come up and show you where you can let go and let your True Self shine through. All you need to do is make a simple commitment to yourself: I will be open to be with what is coming up.

You do not always need to know exactly what the issue is that is presenting itself, or the root cause. If it does show itself to you, that is fine. If not, the feeling can still be tended to.

When uncomfortable feelings or thought patterns rise to the surface, much like bubbles coming up from an underwater spring, allow yourself to be with them. Take a few deep breaths and refrain from giving them names (if they don’t have a script running already) or getting involved in the story that goes with them. Ask your feeling or thought what they are about if you desire. Know that acknowledging the uncomfortable feeling will help it dissolve. Do not push against it for that is what has kept it with you to this point. 

If you find yourself resisting feeling negative emotion simply remember that it is okay to feel what you feel!  Dealing with painful or stressful emotions or thoughts can be well handled through first allowing yourself to feel them by deeply breathing and following your breath into your body while imagining it cleansing and honoring the emotion, and second, seeking out some techniques to assist if they persist. Working through emotions can be achieved through a coaching session as well.

To get started with affirmations, it is as easy as bringing to mind some statements that on some level you know to be true or you would like to feel the truth of such as: I love me. I am perfect, whole, and worth of goodness. I am financially free. Begin by saying and writing these statements to yourself at least 5 times per day, 10-20 will have a more profound effect. This is the power of changing your thoughts with deliberate action.

As you progress, remember the importance of allowing whatever is standing in your way to come up and dissolve. It may also be helpful to ask yourself questions about your affirmations such as

How would it be possible for me to be financially free?

Why do I love myself?

What about me is perfect and whole?

It is initially natural to question one’s self so use your mind to your advantage in this manner!

Affirmations are not a band-aid.  They are an affirmation of who you truly are and what you can truly do with your life when you learn to believe them.  To believe something you must think it over and over again.

Using affirmations is helpful along any journey to self-love and conscious creation of your life.  It is important to realize that creating affirmations with clear intention is a learned skill.  Start with affirmations that are just out of your belief, but you think may be true. For instance, if saying I love me to yourself feels funny, but sort of true you can stretch it to include other affirmatve statements like I love me and I am fun to be around or I am open to loving myself and I am learning to like myself.

To help yourself get out of your own way, be gentle with yourself as you change and grow and modify your affirmations as necessary.  If an affirmation does not feel good, change it!  Use affirmations daily and often for as long as you desire and know that many people use them for months to feel and notice a substantial change.  We create our thought patterns that are not helpful and use them for decades.  To re-train ourselves it takes some time as well.  Perseverance pays off!

When saying an affirmation to yourself get centered first, take a deep breath, and connect with the feeling of your affirmation, believing it to be true.  In combination with becoming aware of what stands in your way and a commitment to unite with your true self, affirmations are a great tool to discover the true you!

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How to Get Your Child to Practice For His Next Music Lesson – Without Bribes, Threats, Or Tears!

How to Get Your Child to Practice For His Next Music Lesson – Without Bribes, Threats, Or Tears!

You’ve invested in music lessons for your child. And now you want him to practice between lessons, of course. But how do you get your child to practice without resorting to brides, threats, or tears?

Well, here are some suggestions:

1. Music practice should include more than scales and drills. Scales and drills are used to teach your child HOW to play an instrument. But your child’s music instruction should also include songs that are FUN to play. If your child never seems to enjoy practicing, then ask the teacher to include familiar or popular songs your child will have fun playing during his private practice sessions.

2. Encourage short practice sessions each day. It’s much better, and more enjoyable, for your child to practice a little every day instead of trying to cram a whole week’s worth of practice into one long session right before his next lesson. Generally, if your child has a 30-minute lesson once a week, he should practice for 30 minutes a day between lessons. But that doesn’t mean he must practice for 30 minutes at any one time. He can break down the 30 minutes a day into two 15-minute sessions. This is particularly helpful when he’s working on a difficult piece. He can try it for 15 minutes, then take a break and do something else before coming back later in the day to tackle the piece again for another 15 minutes.

3. Encourage your child to play for friends and family members (even if he’s just started to take music lessons). Your child will enjoy being the “star” as he plays a few songs for a real, live audience. He’ll naturally want to get better and better on his own – so you won’t have to badger him all the time to get him to practice.

4. Look for music studios that offer ensembles and recitals in addition to private lessons. This way, your child will have a goal in mind. He will want to play a specific song for the next recital or ensemble session so he’ll tend to practice without being told to do so.

5. Purchase CDs that are designed to have someone play along. Look for these CDs at the music store where your child takes lessons or ask your child’s teacher where you can purchase these kinds of CDs. These CDs are another way to make practice fun for your child.

When practice time becomes a regular, enjoyable part of your child’s day, you won’t have to resort to threats, bribes, or tears to get your child to practice between lessons.

How to Get Your Child to Practice For His Next Music Lesson – Without Bribes, Threats, Or Tears!

How to Get Your Child to Practice For His Next Music Lesson - Without Bribes, Threats, Or Tears!

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Powerful Affirmations are a constructive and time-tested way to creating real change that lasts, but unless you have crafted your affirmations correctly to cater for your needs and desires, over time you may not experience the change or results you were looking for. You might have other great methods for making positive change such as goal lists, dream cards, vision boards etc. Though affirmations are by far the ultimate tool to add to your self-growth toolbox. Affirmations take on the role of aligning your desires with your personal beliefs.

When they do become in harmony with one another, manifesting your goals and dreams become virtually effortless. Using affirmations correctly is crucial to making them effective and aligning yourself. If you’re not using them correctly or you feel your affirmations are not working for you could be striking a misalignment. For example. You may have a list of affirmations that you have come up with that you want to start working with in your life. If you find when you are saying your affirmations that you don’t truly believe it, then this can cause misalignment. An easy way to identify a misalignment towards particular affirmations is to take your attention into how you feel when you say them. Is there any feeling of inner conflict or inadequacy? Any uncomfortable feeling in your stomach or chest that disagrees with what you’re saying? If you feel this in any way, this is where you’re causing the misalignment.

You’re saying the Affirmations but your subconscious doesn’t agree or want to believe it yet. Affirmations work tremendously well, as for my own experiences. It’s just a matter of crafting and wording them well. When creating your first set of powerful positive affirmations, there is a simple but one powerful formula you can use. First, identify what’s bothering you and what you want to change. There could be a few you come up with to do with your finances, your health or relationships. The second step is to identify the exact opposite of what you don’t want. For example financial freedom or toned body. Finally, find a word or phrase that sums up its opposite quality. Keep it general and add the words “I am” at the start of the phrase. For a complete example. If you feel you are struggling financially, you may often think ‘poor’ thoughts, sometimes without being aware. Well the opposite of ‘poor’ is clearly ‘wealth’.

So you would make an affirmation where you’re saying “I am wealth”. Once you come up with a few powerful and positive affirmations, it’s important you test them out. When you test your affirmations make sure you feel good and satisfied about yourself. Keep an eye out for any discomfort or inadequacy. It’s sometimes only a matter of changing and searching for the right words till you find something that you are comfortable with. You will know when you’ve found the right word, when you feel comfortable saying your affirmation and it feels true to you. So, referring back to our example. If you say “I am rich” and the word ‘rich’ just doesn’t feel right or bothers in any way, this word is probably not suitable and clashes with you in some way. Try changing it up a little like “I am comfortable and secure in my finances” or “I am financially independent”. Sculpture your affirmations to any area of your life.

Make them powerful and satisfying. If you feel uplifted and smile when you say them, you’ve got it. You can craft affirmations towards anything of material and spiritual, and are very effective. Once you’ve compiled your set of tested affirmations and are happy with them. Get into practice saying them twice a day, but at least once a day. The best time is in the morning just after waking up. This is a great time because your mind is not fully active yet. Between sleep and waking your brain is in Alpha mode, it’s relaxed and you can conduct your affirmations before your thoughts start getting too busy and any kind of negative thought starts. If you are to do it twice a day, which is recommended, especially when you’re first starting out with your affirmations, repeat it like mantra at certain times throughout your day.

Preferably when you’re not to occupied, like when you’re on a break or even whilst driving. Repeating your powerful positive affirmations daily will set your tone, making it set like cement into your mind. The power behind the simple words “I am” can transform your life. You will notice after time that your default way of thinking has altered and any previous conditioning or thoughts about yourself or life has gradually diminished. When you start to notice the difference in your thinking, and notice you are thinking more positively this is a sign that you’re affirmations are working. You’ve aligned your desires with your beliefs. You will start to manifest new and better things out of your new thought patterns. You now have ingrained within your mind, a more dominant positive thinking pattern, with repeated use of powerful positive affirmations.

The affect of powerful positive thinking can have on your life is tremendous! The Law of Attraction responds to every thought we have, be it positive or negative. Did you know that out of our negative thoughts and emotions we attract negative circumstances? Isn’t it time you eliminate unwanted thought patterns and subconscious beliefs all together? Get my “Finally Getting What You Want” e-course and discover step-by-step how to recognize and eliminate habitual mind patterns that keep you from getting to where you want to be, and how to tap into the Law of Attraction and put your manifestation into higher gear! http://FinallyGettingWhatYouWant.com.